Acceptance is the best cure

Does whining, thinking about the past, grumbling or if I had not etc..... gives a solution?? ,no absolutely not, in fact it increases the stress, tension and also unnecessary burden in one self.

what could be the solution to it?, just forget on what ever has happened, is happened, there could be no alternate to it ,instead think on doing better, some smart work really matters.

Instead of worrying or thinking on if I had not done this or if I had done that, I think one has to do something which is challenging..

ok lets go get it :)

A moment of happiness

I was walking on my way to home from the railway station, as usual, grumbling and whining about that is not worth it. While walking, a visually challenged girl was walking beside me, my heart sank, I immediately extended a helping hand and asked her, whether I can guide her till her dwelling and she agreed to it, she folded her long stick and I holded her hand and took her through the way. I was over responsible, I could say and at the same time I could fell the sense of bliss in my heart I really can’t express and at the same time, I had a mixed feeling of happiness and pity. The girl recognised the street, she was about to take and said 'madam en place ithuthan, romaba nandri', I asked her whether she needed my help till her hostel ( she stays in a hostel), but she refused, as she was very confident about her way. she took the left and I stood there to see whether she reaches the place safely.

After that, I continued my walking towards my home. I realised a lot during the petty walk, I had with the girl. I could feel and see the confidence in her, the determination and other strong facet of hers made me to think and realise, how stupid I am and I was in wasting my energy and time in whining and whining an whining..................................

Stop whining

Does whining gives a solution ?, no it does nt, instead it decreases one 's face value, and I think I am the queen of whining, I think it has become my birth right but at one point of time, I have to break it at what ever cost it may, cost , I think the cost will be sadness, I dont mind paying this, if it makes my life happier and smother.

Ok now stop whinign about this and get back to work.

Hidden Truth

I think its better to hide truth , if the truth hurts someone, breaks the relationship or even dampens the faith a person has on the other.

I faced a similar situation today, with a close relative of mine, I dont want to mention the relationship, but when I heard those from that person, I was shattered, scared ad confused whether I can sail smooth in it.

Later after an hour of that conversation I had, I started to view and see the truth that was told in various angles, and when I dig into it, I am not able to be normal as usual, these thoughts are hindering my normal thought process. What to do I am not in state to share it anyone, other than myself.

Keep it to yourself

Is there a need ?... why should I?? Is it hereditary??, why this is happening to the ladies of Sagar's family?.
If anything is happening between two individuals its within them , why the hell you poke your nose into it ??, who ever it may be......it could be your husband?, or your mom in law or your mother why your inquisitiveness is playing a role of a judge ?, what is that hitching your @##...................... Hym..... all such questions arise but as usual , its unanswerable !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How to name it

Is it possessiveness? love?or any kind of mushy feeling ???, how to name it, I am puzzled and don’t have an answer to the questions.
When does a problem arise in any relationship ? is it due to the possesiveness one has, or to some misunderstanding I am bafflled by such questions that arise within me.
I today experienced a similar one, and I am still searching for an answer to it.
am I the reason, or why do I and how do I??, my questions are still unanswerable.
Am I overreacting to a situation???, not sure or not able to adjust to it ???dont know.................
But to conclude this post, not for the sake of concluding..... any relationship what ever it may it has to have a transperancy!!!!! ( Still unclear) :)

Chased away the English but not the language

Chased away the English but not the language

Free India… Bharath Mata Ki Jai….. … these words were uttering from the every Indian during the time of independence…

Every single Indian were jubilant about the victory of driving away the British from mother India. But the seed of language that was sowed in the land of multiple languages is still perishable. In India we have communal barrier, language barrier and the key to overcome, (not breaking as its not easy to create revolution) is the language we use. English is the common tool or language that is used by most of the Indians and it’s the medium of instruction in almost all the schools in India and it is very essential that every political leader should also understand the importance of it.

Recently in Uttar Pradesh, an anti English movement has started under the leadership of Samajwadi leader Mulayam Singh. But is it necessary for such movements?, In any stream of education or in any type of job, the basic parametre is to communicate in English language.

Are these politicians trying to faciliate us or make our life worse !!! ?????

No time for no time :)

I don’t have time, sorry I am busy………. Quick be fast I don’t have time to spend in listing to your stories…….

These are some of the common templates we use or often hear from those whom we interact with.

But have we ever thought, how much time we waste in whiling away and being idle and think and rethink about the past and trying to do something ,just to fill the gap !

I am experiencing the same now sitting idle in office, and racking my brains to keep my sense awake during the office hours ,so that I don’t fall in front of the computer and attract crowd !

Hair falling failing to grow !

Like as usual, I started my daily course at 7 in the morning, boiled milk, made tea and coffee for my husband and mother in law and horlicks for me. While cleaning the table , I saw two strands of hair, I picked and cleaned the table again. I had hair wash, and again I could see a bunch of hair cornered at the bathroom, confused and irritated and wondering how to put an end to hair fall. I browsed through a lot of websites to find a solution and finally I have decided to use Himalaya hair loss cream, lets see whether it stops the fall or fail in stopping it :)