Acceptance is the best cure

Does whining, thinking about the past, grumbling or if I had not etc..... gives a solution?? ,no absolutely not, in fact it increases the stress, tension and also unnecessary burden in one self.

what could be the solution to it?, just forget on what ever has happened, is happened, there could be no alternate to it ,instead think on doing better, some smart work really matters.

Instead of worrying or thinking on if I had not done this or if I had done that, I think one has to do something which is challenging..

ok lets go get it :)

A moment of happiness

I was walking on my way to home from the railway station, as usual, grumbling and whining about that is not worth it. While walking, a visually challenged girl was walking beside me, my heart sank, I immediately extended a helping hand and asked her, whether I can guide her till her dwelling and she agreed to it, she folded her long stick and I holded her hand and took her through the way. I was over responsible, I could say and at the same time I could fell the sense of bliss in my heart I really can’t express and at the same time, I had a mixed feeling of happiness and pity. The girl recognised the street, she was about to take and said 'madam en place ithuthan, romaba nandri', I asked her whether she needed my help till her hostel ( she stays in a hostel), but she refused, as she was very confident about her way. she took the left and I stood there to see whether she reaches the place safely.

After that, I continued my walking towards my home. I realised a lot during the petty walk, I had with the girl. I could feel and see the confidence in her, the determination and other strong facet of hers made me to think and realise, how stupid I am and I was in wasting my energy and time in whining and whining an whining..................................

Stop whining

Does whining gives a solution ?, no it does nt, instead it decreases one 's face value, and I think I am the queen of whining, I think it has become my birth right but at one point of time, I have to break it at what ever cost it may, cost , I think the cost will be sadness, I dont mind paying this, if it makes my life happier and smother.

Ok now stop whinign about this and get back to work.

Hidden Truth

I think its better to hide truth , if the truth hurts someone, breaks the relationship or even dampens the faith a person has on the other.

I faced a similar situation today, with a close relative of mine, I dont want to mention the relationship, but when I heard those from that person, I was shattered, scared ad confused whether I can sail smooth in it.

Later after an hour of that conversation I had, I started to view and see the truth that was told in various angles, and when I dig into it, I am not able to be normal as usual, these thoughts are hindering my normal thought process. What to do I am not in state to share it anyone, other than myself.